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8 Novels That Explore the Dynamics of Friendship

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Elisa Shoenberger has been building a library since she was 13. She loves writing about all aspects of books from author interviews, antiquarian books, archives, and everything in between. She also writes regularly for Murder & Mayhem and Library Journal. She’s also written articles for Huffington Post, Boston Globe, WIRED, Slate, and many other publications. When she’s not writing about reading, she’s reading and adventuring to find cool new art. She also plays alto saxophone and occasionally stiltwalks. Find out more on her website or follow her on Twitter @vogontroubadour.

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A Finalist for the 2025 Kirkus Prize for Fiction.

“[Flournoy] renders the complicated solidarity that exists between friends.” — Raven Leilani, author of Luster.

The Wilderness by Angela Flournoy charts the lives of five Black women over two decades of friendship, as they navigate the exhilarating and precarious terrain between young adulthood and midlife. Set against a backdrop of political upheaval and the mess of modern American life, Flournoy’s much-anticipated follow-up to The Turner House is a kaleidoscopic exploration of identity, resilience, and the profound, tangled beauty of lifelong friendship.

“Don’t walk in front of me, I may not follow
Don’t walk behind me, I may not lead
Walk beside me, just be my friend.”

Often attributed to Albert Camus, this is one of my favorite sayings about friendship. It’s about being together as equals while walking through this journey through life. But as we know, the dynamics of friendship are never simple. Friendships can be hard, messy, and even toxic. Some friendships get blurry when romance is involved. Some friendships fade away, while others can get restarted unexpectedly.

So, to explore the complicated dynamics of these relationships, here are eight books that examine different aspects of friendship.

Once More from the Top by Emily Layden

Dylan Read is America’s Popstar. Ever since her debut album ran up the charts when she was only a senior in high school, she’s been the apple of the music world’s eye. But few know the role that her friend Kelsey had played in her meteoric rise in fame before Kelsey vanished. When Kelsey’s body is found in the lake in their hometown, Dylan has to finally face her past. It’s a story about those foundational friendships, the ones that change our lives in expected ways. But it’s also about loss and guilt in friendships. It’s a story about fame, music, and the baggage we carry from our pasts.

A Summer For the Books by Michelle Lindo-Rice

What do you do if your former best friend comes to you seeking answers about their life? That’s what Jewel Stone has to face. She’s struggling with writer’s block as a successful writer when her former BFF and bookstore owner, Shelby Andrews, comes to her for help. Shelby had been in a biking accident with no memory of the past twelve years. So she goes to her best friend to get her through this, since Shelby has no memory of their falling out. But the past never stays the past, and if they are going to reconcile, they will have to face the demons of their former friendship.

We Ride Upon Sticks by Quan Barry

There aren’t many books told from a collective perspective or group-think narration, but We Ride Upon Sticks makes it work. It’s the story of the 1989 Danvers Falcons, a high school field hockey team made up of girls and one boy, in Salem, MA. The team is doing well, but to ensure their success, they decide to invoke supernatural powers to secure their victory. It’s the story of the entire team, diving in and out of each person’s narrative while exploring how teams bring people together and foster friendships.

The Animators by Kayla Rae Whitaker

This was one of my favorite books in 2017, and it’s the first book that comes to mind when thinking about friendship. Friends since their freshman year of college, Sharon Kisses and Mel Vaught have a strong connection even as they are polar opposites: Sharon is the quiet one, while Mel lives life loudly and largely. Part of their connection lies in their love for underground comics and animation, and they strive to make their mark in the world of animation. When they finally hit it big with an animated film based on a real-life tragedy, fame comes for them. But using someone else’s story, as well as the differences in their personalities, starts to cause cracks in their seemingly unbreakable friendship. It’s got it all: friendship, ambition, and love of art.

My Friends by Fredrik Backman, translated by Neil Smith

The painting is called “The One of the Sea.” It’s so intriguing that Louisa, a 17-year-old artist, sneaks into an auction house to peek at it before it goes on sale. Most people see it as a painting about the sea, but Louisa is obsessed with the three small figures sitting on a pier in the corner. Her instincts are correct, because the painting is about the dynamics of four teenagers: the artist and his three friends. It’s a story about the messiness of being a teenager, the injustice and anguish of tragedies, and the friends who will help to get you through it all. It’s a story about ambition and love of art. It’s from the same author as the bestselling novel A Man Called Ove.

Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin

I loved loved loved this book. It’s about friendship, art, and video games. Its core is the friendship of Sam Masur and Sadie Green, who create a blockbuster video game that skyrockets them into stardom. For me, it’s important to have a book about a woman and a man where romantic love is not key. The book follows three decades of their partnership and friendship through all the ups and downs in their lives. I love the tagline for the novel: “Yes, it is a love story, but it is not one you have read before.”

Welcome to the Hyunam-dong Bookshop by Hwang Bo-reum, translated by Shanna Tan

This was one of my favorite reads of last year. Yeongju breaks from the life she had spent so long building: a successful career and marriage. She realizes she needs more, so she builds a bookstore in a neighborhood—but has no idea who she is and what the bookstore should be. She’s lost in her own sorrow and guilt for ending her marriage. Thanks to the bookshop, Yeongju ends up befriending the people around her who help her move on with her life as she helps them figure out their own path. It’s a story about the power of a place that fosters friendships and how that changes people’s lives.

The Nobodies by Alanna Schubach

Last but not least, we have a book about toxic friendships with a dash of magic. Nina and Jess have been close friends since their childhood…but they share a secret. They can touch their foreheads together and swap bodies. Jess can experience a happy family life in Nina’s life, and Nina can be more daring in Jess’s body. But what was easy in childhood gets much more difficult as adults. Betrayals and unearthed secrets emerge, showing that there is such a thing as being too close to someone.

I hope you find solace and joy in these eight books about different dynamics of friendship. If you want more, check out this list of 9 books for adults about friendship, or if you want to go the other direction, here’s a list of books about toxic friendships.

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